August 19, 2008

Cougar Women are Women in Power and Strength

Good Morning Cougar Ladies,

It is not fun to be a down and out kitty who does not have the financial means to enjoy all of the comforts of life - which assist in making you shine and doing fun things like taking complete control of an entire room in three minutes.

If you cannot even captivate your audience, why try to call yourself a Cougar?

To be a Cougar, you are not just an older woman looking for a younger man..

No, you are so much more. Do not allow the limited labels to "name" you, for you are nameless, really... You are too much to fit into one name. You are full and you are whole, you are happy and you are vibrant. You emit strength, confidence, power; your feminine power which is made up of all of your talent, all of your beauty - shining from the inside, glowing on the outside...

A true Cougar has an unlimited ABUNDANCE of self confidence, and she knows how to get what she wants. Her life is in order, because she would not have it any other way. She RULES her territory, and that takes belief in oneself... And the cub? Well, he just adores her.

What younger man would not be completely mystified and seduced by such an incredible older woman? Mmmm, I am purring just thinking of how my cub made me feel when the things such as how I run by business, or filling out documents, or speaking to clients on the phone would arouse him... Nice, isn't it.

If you are not quite there yet, I'd recommend reading the article below and clicking here to learn more.

Good luck ladies - remember, the work you do on yourself, is never, ever wasted. It is the ultimate investment you can make, a deposit in the universal bank of YOU.

Trust and love yourself enough to make a deposit each and every day.

Your life will change for the better, and all of those adorable man cubs will curl up at your feet!

Laying the Groundwork For Manifestation: Success Through Your Spirit Exercise

Let's begin this powerful exercise by selecting the positive beliefs that will transform your feelings and your experience. As we do this, we are laying the groundwork for the miracle of manifestation.

A wonderful mentor of mine says that you always have a greater sense of what you do want, when you are experiencing what you don't want.

So, rather than looking to the outside and trying to change circumstances from the outside, you need to look within and say:

"Ok, I am clear on what I DON'T want in this situation?

Then, ... "How DON'T I want to feel?"

After you have allowed yourself to surface that up, then turn it around and describe in your notebook what you DO want and how you WANT to feel.

For example, say you are not making enough money, people are telling you the economy is bad and they can't afford to pay you. How does that feel? Yuck!!

Ok, so let's get clear on what you DON'T want and how you DON'T want to feel:

  • I don't want to be broke.
  • I don't want to feel like I have to struggle
  • I don't want to go get a job
  • I don't want to argue with my spouse about money
  • I don't want to feel pressured to make money
  • I don't want to feel desperate about money
  • I don't want to feel like I am not a good business person

Really get it all out!

Now let's turn this around.

What DO you want? How DO you want to feel?

Here is an example:
  • I easily attract my ideal clients who pay me at least $300 an hour joyfully! I feel so happy, so excited!
  • I joyfully create the best marketing actions that attract the most amazing clients. I feel in total connection with them now and they find me in amazing ways.
  • My husband and I have harmony about money--we easily create significant income that meets all our needs and luxuries. I feel so secure, so happy, so at one!

Now, take a moment to make your own Don't Want and Do Want lists.

Try to come up with at least five items for each list.

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Do Wants

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Here's what's happening to you now: The pain of what you DON'T want births the clarity of what you DO want!

Your Do Want list will become the map for your Inner Guidance System.

These are the beliefs you want to cultivate.

The next task is to begin to create a list of Next Actions based on your Do Want list.

Use your Next Actions List as a kind of buffet table to keep going back to each day. This will help you move in the direction of your goals steadily, in small steps. Those small steps create the momentum for your goals to come together in a more fun way! Just watch what happens!

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Once you have clarity on the beliefs you choose to direct, you can begin to start taking actions that will allow that vision to become a reality, one small step at a time.

You have just laid the groundwork for the miracle of manifestation to occur.

Seeing and feeling you living a life of love, joy, peace, health, and prosperity!

Jeanna Gabellini, CPPC, Law of Attraction Expert, publishes the weekly ezine Designing Your MasterPeace.

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